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Tara Anand Couples Therapy | Online Couples & Relationship Therapy

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Tara Anand Couples Therapy | Online Couples & Relationship Therapy

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Facing My Prematurely Empty Nest

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Is an Aspiring Bodhisattva Allowed to Have Boundaries?

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Discover Surya Namaskar for Holistic Health

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how to say no

Breaking The People-Pleasing Pattern

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Allow Your Tears To Heal You

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After conflict, don’t leave the relationship sitti After conflict, don’t leave the relationship sitting in the hurt.

Come back when you are calmer. Talk about what happened. Take responsibility for your part. Listen for what your partner was trying to say.

Repair does not erase the difficult moment. It helps you find your way back to each other.

And because knowing how to repair is not always easy, I’m creating the Heartfelt Repair Workbook — practical support for couples who want help finding their way back after hurt.

More on this soon.

#CouplesTherapy #RelationshipRepair #MarriageCounselling #EmotionalIntimacy #HealthyRelationships
Keep getting to know each other. It is so easy to Keep getting to know each other.

It is so easy to lose touch with the inner world of our partner due to the busyness of life...do make sure you reserve time every week to catchup and connect. 

#marriagegoals
#emotionalintimacy
#strongrelationship #loveandconnection #couplestherapist
When a relationship becomes your whole identity, y When a relationship becomes your whole identity, your preferences, friendships, confidence, and inner voice begin to fade into the background.

Love should deepen your life — not make you disappear inside it.

What part of yourself do you need to return to? 

Take care
Tara

#CouplesTherapy #RelationshipPatterns #SenseOfSelf #codependency  #EmotionalWellbeing
Unrealistic expectations keep us relating to the p Unrealistic expectations keep us relating to the partner we imagine they should be, instead of the human being in front of us.

Question them. Soften them. Let go of the ones no real partner can meet.

Your relationship will thank you for it.

#CouplesTherapy #RelationshipExpectations #EmotionalIntimacy #MarriageCounselling #RelationshipRepair
A partner’s perspective can be deeply helpful. Bu A partner’s perspective can be deeply helpful.

But when every decision needs their approval, self-trust can quietly weaken.

Before asking them, pause and ask yourself:
Am I looking for input — or permission?

#CouplesTherapy #RelationshipCommunication #MarriageCounselling #SelfTrust #EmotionalResponsibility
The weekend cannot do all the work. A relationshi The weekend cannot do all the work.

A relationship needs care in the middle of real life — when both people are tired, busy, distracted, and still choosing to respond to each other with patience, kindness and affection.

Hope you are well.
Tara

#CouplesTherapy #RelationshipRepair #MarriageCounselling #EmotionalConnection #CouplesCounselling
The hurtful moments can become very loud in memory The hurtful moments can become very loud in memory.

They can cover the quieter truths —
the care that has been shown,
the softness that has existed,
the ways someone has also tried.

Repair does not ask you to forget the hurt.

It asks you not to let hurt become
the only evidence you keep returning to.

#RelationshipRepair #CouplesTherapy #MarriageCounselling #CouplesCounselling #EmotionalResponsibility
A key sign of emotional intelligence is the abilit A key sign of emotional intelligence is the ability to regulate our emotions and not give in to them whenever they arise.

This involves being able to pause, self-soothe and choose a mindful direction for the uncomfortable emotion rather than to act on it immediately. 

Not having this ability can really damage relationships. Take the first step to cultivate this skill by watching my free online workship video on Heart-centred communication. Follow the link in my Bio. 

#relationshipskills #emotionalintelligence #emotionalregulation #rightspeech #couplestherapy
Changing “you should” to “you could” is not just a Changing “you should” to “you could” is not just a softer script.

If I am still holding criticism inside me, my partner will feel that in the suggestion.

The real shift is not only in the words I choose, but in the place I am speaking from.

Have a good week ahead.

#CouplesTherapy #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalResponsibility #MarriageCounselling #ConsciousRelationships
This is not a decision to make from pressure, time This is not a decision to make from pressure, timelines, fear, or guilt.

It needs honest conversations between partners — about desire, readiness, capacity, and the life they are choosing together.

Because bringing a child into your life should come from a real yes, not from the weight of other people’s expectations.

#ChildfreeByChoice
#FamilyPressure
#CouplesConversations
#ConsciousParenting
#CouplesTherapy
Let’s be honest. Many of us have moments when we Let’s be honest.

Many of us have moments when we explain our behaviour by saying, “But my partner provoked me.”

And yes, we may have been provoked.

They may have said something hurtful.
They may have dismissed us.
They may have touched a very old wound.

But anger does not give us permission to insult, humiliate, or hurt the person in front of us.

Being able to acknowledge this without collapsing into shame is emotional maturity.

Being willing to take responsibility for it is integrity.

After the moment has passed, ask yourself gently:

🤔Did I use my pain to justify behaviour I need to take responsibility for?

And the same goes for your partner.

Take care
Tara

#EmotionalResponsibility
#RelationshipRepair
#CouplesTherapy
#HealthyConflict
#EmotionalMaturity
It hurts to be blamed, especially if your partner It hurts to be blamed, especially if your partner has not yet checked with you.

And it hurts the relationship too.

The meaning we attach. The certainty we build. The blame that settles before there has been a real pause.

Sometimes repair begins with one honest question: Am I sure?

Save this for a moment you need a reminder to take a mindful pause.

Zen calligraphy: Thich Nhat Hanh

#couplestherapy #relationshiprepair #mindfulrelationships #emotionalawareness #thichnhathanh
Eye contact matters more than you know. When your Eye contact matters more than you know.

When your partner is sharing something intimate, notice if your eyes drift away.

Turn toward them gently.

Let them feel:
I am here.
You matter to me right now.

#CouplesTherapy #RelationshipTips #EmotionalIntimacy #HealthyRelationships #MindfulRelationships
Yoga has shaped the woman, partner, mother, and th Yoga has shaped the woman, partner, mother, and therapist I am still becoming.

It is the path I keep returning to —
when love hurts,
when the heart closes,
when I need to listen more deeply,
and when repair asks for truth and tenderness.

Yoga does not end on the mat.

It becomes the way
we speak,
listen,
repair,
and return —

to ourselves
and each other.

Day after day.

This is the heart-centred path
I keep practising in my own life,
and the spirit with which I sit
with love, hurt, and repair in therapy.

#Swadhyaya
#YogaPhilosophy
#HeartCentredTherapy
#RelationshipRepair
#CouplesTherapy
Be selective and discerning in sharing your relati Be selective and discerning in sharing your relationship issues. Friends and family although well-meaning may end up projecting their own biases and experiences instead of serving as a sounding board.

Consider taking the support of a trained counselor or therapist. Follow the link in my Bio to know about individual therapy with me.

Take care
Tara

#shouldistayorshouldigo #listentoyourself #healthyboundaries #innervoice #relationshipclarity
A strict 50/50 mindset is unrealistic and damaging A strict 50/50 mindset is unrealistic and damaging in a marriage as it harbors resentment.

Life is unpredictable. Illness, career shifts, or emotional burnout mean one person will sometimes have to carry 80% while the other carries 20%.

Healthy relationships are based on mutual support, understanding and flexibility.

So avoid keeping score if you have a tendency to do so.

#healthyrelationships #relationshipmistakes #marriagewisdom #couplestherapy #marriageadvice
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